Court Case: Church was ok to deny woman entry to service

A bad day in court recently for Hui Son Lye.

She had brought a lawsuit against the city of Lacey, WA.  She was convinced that her consitutional rights were violated because police arrested her as she tried to enter Sacred Heart Catholic Church.

It seems that the woman was upset that the mass was not being conducted in Korean, even though she claimed the Archbishop had instructed it.

According to the church, the woman had disrupted services before, so they issued a ‘no trespass’ order and told her to worship elsewhere.  She was told that should would be arrested if she returned.

But she returned.

And was arrested.

A Washington federal district court rejected her claims.

QUESTION:  Have you ever had someone be a real problem in your church?

Ever had someone disrupt services?

How did you deal with it?

Would you EVER issue a ‘no trespass’ warning?

How would you deal with this situation?

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Being called down from the pulpit

This clip has been making it’s way around the internet.  It’s from First Baptist in Hammond, IN.  It’s a short clip… just about a minute… but shows the attitude that comes from the pulpit there. It’s the same culture and attitude exhibited by former pastor Jack Schaap.

Take a look:

I’m not sure if this message from Larry Smith was before or after Schaap left, but I think it’s a good example of the abuse that can occur in churches like this.  As you can hear in the background, the amens continue throughout the showdown.

I grew up in a church like this.  And it was not uncommon for someone to be called down from the pulpit… even by name.

Given… most of the people that were called down were teenagers.

And most of us deserved it.

And… most of the group I was in at that time are no where near a church on Sunday these days.

Thoughts?

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To all the sermon stealers: Milk many cows, but make your own butter

Ray Pritchard has some advice for pastors that steal sermons:

  • The nature of the Internet makes it easy to steal someone else’s work and make it your own.
  • But the Internet also makes it very easy to find out when a pastor has been using someone else’s work.
  • What about using an outline verbatim? From my point of view, that’s fine because an outline is not a sermon. I don’t think you need to give credit for an outline unless it is amazingly unique. The same holds true for ideas and thoughts that you may find here and there. No one wants to hear a sermon that sounds like a pastiche of quotes: “As John Piper pointed out . . . John MacArthur suggested this application . . . Spurgeon used this illustration . . . To borrow a thought from Geoff Thomas . . .” Some of this is just a matter of common sense. When you borrow a big section or a very unique idea and certainly when there is a significant quote, give the attribution. But don’t go overboard either.
  • What about the pastor who allegedly is using my sermons verbatim? Let me say again what I’ve said before. That’s just plan dumb.
  • In earlier years I used to say that people could use my sermons any way they like, and I still mean that. But I never meant, “Use them word for word.” It never occurred to me that someone would do that.
  • You’re bound to get caught sooner or later.
  • So this is what I say nowadays: You are welcome to use my sermons in your own message preparation. Use them, amend them, revise them, by all means improve them, and make them your own.
  • Don’t preach anyone else’s sermons verbatim.

You can read more from Ray here…

Thoughts?

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Your excuses are stupid.

Sorry. But there is really no nicer way to say it. Your excuses are stupid. Especially when it comes to your relationship with Christ. Yes, you may have a had a rough childhood. Yes, you may have a busy schedule. Yes, you may think you’re giving up too many opportunities and experiences.

Same goes for us leaders.  Our excuses are stupid.

Stop being scared.

Stop worrying about your security.

Don’t misplace your priorities when it comes to leading the church.

Do what needs to be done.

Because your excuses are stupid.

The work is TOO important.

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Who will be the next Pope? It could be Regis.

When the College of Cardinals vote on who will be the next leader of the Catholic church, what standards and qualifications will they be looking at?

According to an article this morning at CNN, the standards are ‘remarkably loose’ for choosing a new Pope.

In fact, any baptized man in good standing could be elected pope.

But no women (since they can’t even become priests).

So… according to the CNN story… that really opens up the range of options.  Here’s are some possibilities:

House Speaker John Boehner

U2 Lead Singer Bono

Comedian Stephen Colbert

Or, how about a Canadian pope, like Cardinal Marc Ouellet, the former archbishop of Quebec?

Other top contenders:  Peter Turkson, a cardinal fro Ghana.

It’s extremely rare that a pope is chosen that is not a bishop or cardinal, but it could happen.

But a reality check… it hasn’t happened since 1379.

Just for fun… here are some other catholics that might make interesting popes:

Alec Baldwin

Steve (that’s what she said) Carell

Dom DeLuise (oh stink… he’s dead, but would have made one heck of a pope)

Jimmy Fallon

Arnold Schwarzenegger

Sylvester Stallone

Jon Voight

Harry Connick, Jr.

Bruce Springsteen

Sean Hannity

Jimmy Kimmel

Bill O’Reilly

Regis Philbin

More here…

 

Packing Heat in Church

Earlier this month, the Arkansas State Legislature voted to pass a measure allowing the concealed carry of firearms within houses of worship. The bill was passed in an effort to increase personal security and safety within churches, which were identified as “soft targets.”

Is this a necessity in churches, or is this an over-reaction to the nationwide gun debate?
Does YOUR church allow people to carry concealed firearms?

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Three Feet of Snow Sucks when Your Offering for the Week is $0

The Northeast got hit with a HUGE snowstorm over the weekend.  Some places got over three feet of snow.

For churches that are not able to meet on the weekend, that means a week without an offering.

And if your church is close on it’s budget… this can be a HUGE deal.

Is there something you can do about it?

Mark Brooks shares some thoughts:

Is there anything you can do?  Yes!  The following are some key ideas you can do right now to make up the loss of a cancelled service.  I recommend the following…

  • Write a snail mail letter to all your donors asking them to this week send in their offering.  Include in the letter a postage paid stamp so that it is easy for them to send the offering back to you.  If you need help with that letter email me for a sample copy at Mark@TheCharisGroup.org
  • Send out an email blast today asking members to respond with a gift.  If you have online giving set up include a link to that portal so that they can easily make their gift.
  • Use your Social Media platforms to appeal to members to send in a gift this week.

Make the “ask” about maintaining ministry.  Don’t sound desperate.  Remember, guilt never works in the long run.  I would be saying something like, “The snow may have stopped our services but missions and ministry continues on here at Our Church.  This week we are continue our planning for (list some ministry initiative) that is why your faithful gift now means so much.”

Respond to the immediate need now but plan for the future.  If you are a church in the Northeast you are simply trying to get past this crisis.  However, if I had a church in the Snow Belt I would have in place a set strategy for snow weekends.  It is not IF they will happen but WHEN.  So, have in place the basics you need.

Here is my must have list of action items to prepare for the next blizzard…

  • Make sure you have an up to date data base of your members email addresses, Social Media contact information, etc.  You can’t send out an email blast if you don’t have an email data base!
  • Set up online giving!  If you have online giving you can immediately recoup any losses from a cancelled weekend of services.  If you need help setting this up see our website at http://charisgivingsolutions.com/
  • Have a snail mail letter already drafted and ready to send out.  You know the snow is coming why not send out a letter before it hits?
  • Have printed envelopes with a postage paid stamp printed on them.  Yon only pay the postage IF a member sends it back.  The key is to make giving easy for your members.  The easier it is to give the more likely they will give.

Read more here

Just wondering.  If you’re in a part of the country that suffers from having to cancel services… how big of a burden does it put on your church’s cash flow and budgeting?  Do you usually make up the shortfall, or is it usually a longer-term hit?

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The TMI Pastor. Don’t be that guy.

TMI = Too much information.

I think it should be a real medical diagnosis for some pastors I’ve met over the years.  Here’s how to tell if you’re a TMI pastor:

1.  Do you chuck so much content into a sermon that it really should be three sermons?  People will only remember so much. I like how Rick Warren says he wrote the Purpose Driven Life.  He tried to use as few words as possible.  He took paragraphs and made them sentences.  He took 10 words and made them into five.  Wordsmith your sermons.  Many sermons could be half the length and be spot on (and not really lose a thing in the translation).

2.  Another diagnosis for pastors could be PWLTHTT.  This stands for ‘pastors who like to hear themselves talk’.  Here, the problem isn’t too much content at all, it’s not an issue of content… it’s a matter of filling time and enjoying the sound of your own voice.  Maybe you sermons are long, not because you have way too much content, but because you like the sound of your own voice. This is a question that only you can answer.  If you think you’re the best thing since sliced bread, then I think a diagnosis of PWLTHTT is in order.  Stop that.

3.  The last diagnosis that I think many speakers and pastors could have is the RCR disease.  This stands for Repeat, Circle around, Repeat.  This is when you, as the speaker state your point, then rather than give great illustrations of your point, you just re-state your point using different words. Give some solid illustrations that give some meat to your point rather than just repeating it.

OK… so maybe this is a list of my pet peeves as I get to listen to a ton of different speakers (most of them really, really great speakers).  But everyone once in a while, I’ll hear a TMI, PWLTHTT or RCR conflicted pastor.

Do a self-diagnosis for these conditions.  Ask for some input from those you trust.

But as I like to say… don’t ask the question if you don’t want to hear the answer!

Thoughts?

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Where will you find your greatest battle as a church leader?

Michael Warden has a great piece on leadership wars.

Where will you find your greatest leadership challenge?

When you’re deciding who to hire or what to build?

When you’re deciding the direction, the vision, the values of your church?

When you deal with a difficult church member or a tremendously irrational board member?

No.

Michael writes:

The greatest battles a leader faces are private affairs, most often in the dead loneliness of middle night, with no one but the Spirit standing between you and the great void.

Warden brings out a great point.

Leadership is lonely.

It’s not nearly as glamorous as the people you lead think it is.

Nor is it as easy.

Many people have no idea of the internal struggles (and baggage) that you may be carrying today.

Those struggles are the probably the greatest struggle you will ever has a a church leader

The struggle for your family, for your thought life, for your money.

Really… in many ways… the same struggles everyone else has.

But you’re on the pedestal.  You’re on the spotlight.

You’re the one that loses their job and does great harm to the body of Christ when you don’t pass the personal struggle test at 3 in the morning.

Leader… be aware that your most important struggle with most likely be internal and personal.  Make good decisions there first.  If you don’t, the other ‘seemingly’ important decisions really aren’t all that important.

Read more of Michael’s thoughts here…

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What if EVERYONE tithed?

According to CNN, Christians only give (on average) about $35 bucks to their church each year.

I have NO idea if that is true (maybe it is if you average out offerings among all church attenders).  But let’s go with that.

According to that source, churches receive about $4 billion dollars in donations a year.

The article goes on to say that if people tithed, churches would have received more like $25 billion.

I’m wondering.

What is the percentage of people who tithe in your church?

What is the average gift in your church per year per household?

Do you keep track of these figures?

And what COULD your church do if you just DOUBLED the number of people who tithe?

Thoughts?

HT

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